Happy 21st Friendship Day to me

And all like-hearted comrades who are for whatever reasons single and hopefully enjoying it.

so love is in the air *coughs coughs* haha

or for those without love, then i suppose one has to make do with friends. thats similar loser friends without lovers. haha its ok im a loser too.

anyway, realised while reading my ageing notes just now that 1) i haven blogged for a while and 2) valentines day is just tomorrow so maybe time to share my thoughts on this elusive mysterious evidently quite powerful force that can compel ppl to do stupid things like jumping off a cliff ( the butterfly lovers) or poisoning oneself (romeo and juliet) etc etc. oh sorry did i say stupid? i meant noble. haha. and that is *drum roll* Love.

hmm maybe i should start with the few e.g that i have had the pleasure to observe

its rather amazing to actually see how two completely different individuals somehow connect to each other and i mean if they are both completely different than there has to be some mysterious force in play and i can only conclude that it is Love.
different in terms of personality, interests, etc etc. and its really quite amazing to see how this two individual change when they are interacting with one another. its like the atmosphere will change and yeah, you will just watch and decide to siam after a while otherwise might just get diabetic. haha

and its really quite remarkable that two ppl can actually not get bored with each other. i mean, how much can two individuals talk abt right? like there's this two classmates of mine (of which lovers would not be sufficient to describe their relationship... its already something beyond that, like marriage without the bitter-ness. at least not yet.) who are perpetually together. maybe its just the feeling of being with each other?? i seriously have no plausible explanation for this phenomenon. haha

another thing that i havent had the luck to experience is the mythical 'love at first sight' phenomenon. like how is it suppose to happen? does it only apply to super chio ppl who are physically attracted to one another ie lust or does it apply to ordinary ppl who are completely ordinary in appearance and somehow they just know that they are each other's half. at first sight mind you. haha purlease. it has to be lust.

on a love related note, im watching 爱. haha

then again on a more traditional and personal note i see my parents who argue er quite often and i have second thoughts about marriage. like i dun see any love at all. maybe more subtle things like my mom buying clothes for my father even though he thinks its a waste of money and raises a big fuss about wasting money etc etc. never seen them holding hands either.
which makes me wonder if i want to get married in the future.
i mean, after a while, things start to get more serious and boring. commitments take over love and all the mushy stuff. no romance basically.
then again i suppose after a while romance doesnt really matter cause its more of having a companion more so than a lover. i.e you dun die alone and sad. haha

but im a noob at this thing called Love so maybe i should just get back to you when some arrow by a naked baby angel called cupid taiko-ly strikes me.
just make sure the same arrow strikes a hot person too. haha

cheers :)