Thursday, February 17, 2011

where's the fine line?

'at some point you will realise that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop.

leave them alone.
walk away.

it's not as like you're giving up, and it's not like you shouldn't try.

it's just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. what is truly yours will eventually by yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.'

if this touched something in your heart, then you are not alone

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anyway, its just very sad and i dun know regretful? that what seemed to be a friendly friendship just changed. dissipated. if it was even a friendship.

and thing about relationship is not like grades, you cant just work harder at it to change matters.

and you dun know what went wrong too. like no de-brief or anything.

then again, even if i knew what was wrong, doesnt mean i will be able to change and improve. cause i would probably have to change myself.

and to change myself for someone, something, with no guaranteed results?

would you?

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hot hot weather. but nice blue skies

4 comments:

  1. Anonymous7:08 AM

    I agree with you...relationships carry a certain uncertainty that school/work do not.

    I guess thats why I've never really focused on relationships in the past. But now that my parents are no longer in Singapore, I think friends provide a level of emotional support that may be worth the effort.

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  2. Yup just that you can't be with friends all the time
    And I dun exactly share my troubles with anyone
    As in there's only some extent of emotional support that friends of a certain level can provide
    I need a bff haha

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  3. Anonymous8:00 PM

    no, you need a girlfriend

    and no, i'm not a girl...so don't get your hopes up haha

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  4. I've got commitment issues LOL

    sorry hoh I dun mix around with anonymous ppl too k haha

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